My Boyfriend Wants BDSM

Hi John,

I read Mars & Venus In The Bedroom, but I missed the chapter on the rough stuff. I saw you do an interview where you mentioned 50 Shades of Grey and I loved your perpective on it. So I am hoping you can help me.

My boyfriend wants to do BDSM.

Is this okay?

I am afraid it might hurt our relationship.

What do you think?

Maya


Wow. Thanks for writing in Maya. I don't think I have ever written about BDSM. I have spoken about it many times though....